MARRIAGE TRUTH

MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear

oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life".

One thing about marriage is that you don't

drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no

matter how painful or how stressful it is.

That is why I thought it necessary to let you know this.

When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the

beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones.

Look for the one that is your size. Not every

handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you,

not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for

the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.

POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear,

snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young

people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe.

Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere.

Stick to your values and therein you shall find

someone like you,

but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values.

PERCEPTION : In this kind of shoe purchasing

enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe

before you buy. This is why it is

important to seek guidance and counseling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing

people to the right shoes (Pastors and

Relationship coaches).

And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply

consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you

your size (GOD ALMIGHTY ).

"You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage."

Ladies these days get so motivated when they

attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the

wedding WHAT NEXT?

Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it.

Ask questions

-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)

-What's the size (Values)

-How much (His/Her interest)

-How long will it last (His/Her Character)

-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is

compatibility)

-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love

you and will accept you the way you are)

Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with

beautiful shoes and when they show you their

foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about

the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'.

And for those who have purchased the wrong

shoes, you can still make it your size again if

you'd consult the manufacturer

and let Him have His way in your marriage.

God bless us all.

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